It's Not Right but It's Okay
| "It's Not Right but It's Okay" | ||||
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| Single by Whitney Houston | ||||
| from the album My Love Is Your Love | ||||
| A-side | "Heartbreak Hotel" | |||
| B-side | "Get It Back" | |||
| Released | February 15, 1999 | |||
| Studio | Crossway (Mendham, New Jersey) | |||
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| Label | Arista | |||
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| Producer(s) | Darkchild | |||
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| "It's Not Right but It's Okay" on YouTube | ||||
"It's Not Right but It's Okay" is a song recorded by American singer Whitney Houston for her fourth studio album, My Love Is Your Love. It was written by LaShawn Daniels, Rodney "Darkchild" Jerkins, Fred Jerkins III, Isaac Phillips, Toni Estes and produced by Darkchild. The song was released as the third single from the album on February 15, 1999, by Arista Records. "It's Not Right but It's Okay" examines a woman confronting her lover about his infidelity.
Houston won the 2000 Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance for this song. In 2003, Q Magazine ranked "It's Not Right but It's Okay" at number 638 in their list of the "1001 Best Songs Ever". In 2019, Billboard listed it as one of the Greatest Songs of 1999. In 2022, the Thunderpuss club mix was listed in the list of the 200 greatest dance songs of all time on Rolling Stone. In 2025, Billboard listed the song in its 100 Best Dance Songs of All Time list as well as its 100 Best LGBTQ Anthems of All Time list. That same year, remixer and deejay Felix Jaehn put out a new official remix of the song to commemorate the 25th anniversary of the original song's release. The single reached number one in Spain and the top five in Canada, Iceland, the United Kingdom, and the United States. The single helped cement Houston’s status as a pop culture icon.